If you've found yourself on this page, I'd have to assume you're a big dreamer with a deep desire to make a big impact.
You're hungry for more eyes on you & your work, but lately?
You've been scared to rock the boat. There's a lump in your throat when you go to speak.
Your self expression has felt... OFF.
All that pressure, comparison & the fear of being judged?
Old news. No longer a thing.
The fear of saying the wrong thing or not knowing enough?
🤷♀️ Neutralised in your system.
The trembling apology on the tip of your tongue... gone.
You feel unshakeably CLEAR in who you are, you're not scared to make mistakes and you're excited to continue growing.
This doesn't have to be a "maybe one day I'll feel that way".
*Holy f!ck* levels of confidence in your creative expression is a veryyyy achievable goal.
It's a skill you can learn. And once you learn it, you can go do some epic main character sh*t.
The vibe: soft belly, strong spine, standing TALL in your bigness and loud in your voice.
It takes so much energy looping in a worry spiral about whether you're being judged. It takes even more energy to procrastinate, self-censor or hide who you are.
Why not spend that energy learning how to let yourself be seen, heard & recognised by all the *right* people?
This process is WAY less hard and painful than your brain (inner critic) makes it out to be.
Let me help you detox this old programming so that your confidence + business success aren't hijacked by fear and you can share your incredible message with the world.
Apologising for who you are + being a BIG personality? We're no longer doing that.
Move over mediocre messaging... hotter-than-hell expression is our new NORMAL.
If you've found yourself on this page, I'd have to assume you're a big dreamer with a deep desire to make a big impact.
You're hungry for more eyes on you & your work, but lately?
You've been scared to rock the boat. There's a lump in your throat when you go to speak.
Your self expression has felt... OFF.
I'd like you to picture yourself on New Years Eve.
You’re wearing sequins, sipping your cocktail, looking FINE as hell... celebrating the year that's been.
You *actually* manifested that BIG goal you thought would take years to bring to life. Your creativity was on FIRE. Your online presence and content creation felt like a party everyone WISHES they were invited to... where you lose track of the night because you're just having too much fun.
🔥 You felt fear, kept going...
💋 You got over the *ick* and gradually... you became low-key obsessed with being on the internet
💥 You got to support humans who loved your wisdom (and your weird!)
🍯 The internet felt like your fun place
The best part? You felt free to be yourself, instead of worried about being perfect.
Ironically, the less "perfect" you had to be... the less overthinking you did... the more dynamite 🧨 your content became. You stood out distinctly in a saturated sea of same-same content.
"She said what we were ALL secretly thinking" pearls of wisdom poured out of you.
...Giving thousands of humans permission to be a little more authentic too.
You’re wearing sequins, sipping your cocktail, looking FINE as hell... celebrating the year that's been.
You *actually* manifested that BIG goal you thought would take years to bring to life. Your creativity was on FIRE. Your online presence and content creation felt like a party everyone WISHES they were invited to... where you lose track of the night because you're just having too much fun.
💥 You got to work and chat with humans who loved your wisdom (and your weird!)
📈 Your engagement was popping
🔥 You felt fear, but kept going
🎬 You got over the *ick* and started loving being on the internet
The best part? You felt free to be yourself, instead of worried about being perfect.
Ironically, the less "perfect" you had to be... the less overthinking you did... the more dynamite 🧨 your content became.
You stood out distinctly in a saturated sea of same-same content.
"She said what we were ALL secretly thinking" pearls of wisdom poured out of you.
...And it gave thousands of people permission to be themselves too.
All that pressure, comparison & the fear of being judged?
Old news. No longer a thing.
The fear of saying the wrong thing or not knowing enough?
🤷♀️ Neutralised in your system.
The trembling apology on the tip of your tongue... gone.
You feel unshakeably CLEAR in who you are, you're not scared to make mistakes and you're excited to continue growing.
*Holy f!ck* levels of confidence in your creative expression is a veryyyy achievable goal.
It's a skill you can learn. And once you learn it, you can do some epic main character sh*t.
The vibe: soft belly, strong spine, standing TALL in your bigness and loud in your voice.
It takes so much energy looping in a worry spiral about whether you're being judged. It takes even more energy to procrastinate, self-censor or hide who you are.
Why not spend that energy learning how to let yourself be seen, heard & recognised by all the *right* people?
This process is WAY less hard and painful than your brain (inner critic) makes it out to be.
Let me help you detox this old programming so that your confidence + business success aren't hijacked by fear and you can share your incredible message with the world.
Apologising for who you are + being a BIG personality? We're no longer doing that.
Move over mediocre messaging... hotter-than-hell expression is our new NORMAL.
You're a baddie, but an even fiercer voice is asking to pour through.
Your biz + creativity is feeling a bit *meh*. If you're honest... you are holding your tongue on topics you wanna speak to. The fear of not getting it "right" is keeping you stuck... and your results reflect it. You're ready to say hello to a no-fucks-given frequency... every time you share.
You went from being SO clear.. to shrinking parts of you. You used to feel SO aligned & unstoppably "you" but THAT situation rocked your confidence like woahhh 😱😱😱 Their projections leaked into your thoughts like a bad smell... And as a result you started walking on eggshells, trying not to offend/intimidate anyone + made choices that were not an 111% fuck yes.
The subtle fear of being cancelled or seen as "one of those coaches" is keeping your fullest expression hostage. Not only do you not want people to talk shit about you/think you’re a bad person...you GENUINELY want to make people feel amazing & leave them better than you found them. You know it's time to strengthen the internal boundaries that support you to say the damn things.
You thought you were the queen of boundaries + the baddest bitch on the block until... That. One. Freaking. Client. Who you COULDN’T win with... who brought up ALL your insecurities. You felt misunderstood, painted as the villain no matter what you did & the dynamic felt eerily similar to your childhood bully. You're ready for that situation to stop having any influence on how you show up.
You're DONE walking on eggshells. After some setbacks, you took some time to reflect, but you've lingered in the shadows for way too long & now? You're HIDING. The pity party doesn't match your outfit babe... it's time to put the crown back on + emerge from the ashes brighter & louder than ever before.
You're done trying to be perfect... you're here to be a trailblazer!
Your subtle obsession with being original *ahem* perfect is stopping you from making the necessary mistakes and moves that'll help you change the game! It's time to stop cock-blocking your weird ideas, trust your instincts... and give yourself FULL permission to flirt with your big vision.
You're sick to death of trying to "make sense" to everybody and their mother. Cramming your deep, sexy, silly, witchy multifaceted soul into one box or niche... feels SO confining. You wonder... "which category am I supposed to fit into?" because you're not like any other bitch on the block.
You wanna bring these different parts of you online... but you're meeting an edge around how people will judge you for that.
You've been riding the external validation rollercoaster. Measuring your power based on the algorithm, money or saying what you think they want you to say... Leaves you in a puddle of pressure, comparison + a whole lot of "am I doing this right??!"
You tell yourself... "If I could just buy that house, go viral on Insta or hit 100k months... THEN I'll feel like I've made it."
But it's never enough to satiate the hunger inside.
*ugly crying face enters the chat*.
You went from being SO clear.. to shrinking parts of you.
You used to feel SO aligned & unstoppably "you" but THAT situation rocked your confidence like woahhh 😱😱😱
Their projections leaked into your thoughts like a bad smell... And as a result you started walking on eggshells, trying not to offend/intimidate anyone + made choices that weren't an 111% fuck yes.
You're a baddie, but an even fiercer voice is asking to pour through.
Your biz + creativity is feeling a bit *meh*. If you're honest... you are holding your tongue on topics you wanna speak to.
The fear of not getting it "right" is keeping you stuck... and your results reflect it. You're ready to say hello to a no-fucks-given frequency... every time you share.
The subtle fear of being cancelled or seen as "one of those coaches" is keeping your fullest expression hostage.
Not only do you not want people to talk shit about you/think you’re a bad person...
You GENUINELY want to make people feel amazing & leave them better than you found them. You know it's time to strengthen the internal boundaries that support you to just say the damn things.
You're done trying to be perfect... you're here to be a trailblazer!
Your subtle obsession with being original *ahem* perfect is stopping you from making the necessary mistakes & moves that'll help you change the game!
It's time to stop cock-blocking your weird ideas, trust your instincts... and give yourself FULL permission to flirt with your big vision.
You're DONE walking on eggshells.
After some setbacks, you took some time to reflect, but you've lingered in the shadows for way too long & now?
You're HIDING.
The pity party doesn't match your outfit babe... it's time to put the crown back on + emerge from the ashes brighter & louder than ever before.
You thought you were the queen of boundaries + the baddest bitch on the block until...
That. One. Freaking. Client. Who you COULDN’T win with... who brought up ALL your insecurities.
You felt misunderstood, painted as the villain no matter what you did & the dynamic felt eerily similar to your childhood bully.
You're ready for that situation to stop having any influence on how you show up.
You're sick to death of trying to "make sense" to everybody and their mother.
Cramming your creative multidimensional soul into one box or niche... feels SO confining.
You wonder... "which category am I meant to fit into?" because you're not like any other spiritual bitch in the industry.
You wanna bring these different parts of you online... but you're meeting an edge around how people will judge you for that.
You've been riding the external validation rollercoaster.
Measuring your power based on the algorithm, money + saying what you think they want to hear... leaves you in a puddle of pressure, second guessing + a whole lot of "am I doing this right??!".
You tell yourself...
"If I could just buy that house, go viral on Insta or hit 100k months... THEN I'll feel like I've made it."
But it's never enough to satiate the void inside. *ugly crying face enters the chat*.
Those *other* experiences left your heart bruised.
And it still stings.
Burn The Rules is a healing balm for your sensitive heart and ROCKET FUEL 🚀 for turning that pain into power.
Let's clean up the emotional aftermath so these wounds do NOT fester and...
You feel deeply safe to be fully you - unapologetically successful, ridiculous, sexy, funny, outspoken & deep.
And LOUDLY share the work you were MEANT TO in this world.
This program will help you f*ck off the good girl antics + weight of other people's expectations... so you can squirt your magic 💦🪄 all over the internet, neutralise doubt & feel unshakeably GOOD in who you are.
You GET to be an unfiltered, widely beloved bad bitch who...
Regularly makes the internet go wild!
Doesn't give wounded people free mental real estate in her brain... or f*ck with her magic.
Attracts all the right people & repels all the WRONG ones.
Who loves the shit outta herself, her amazing life and everything she did to get there... WITHOUT apology.
Many coaches and social media experts offer one-size-fits-all strategies for blowing up online...
But these usually don't result in you being your most authentic, relaxed or creative self.
I personally think this is a BIG problem, because YOU are the face of your brand and mission. If you feel insecure, inauthentic and choked up? If you're creating to fit into a trend, rather than expressing what you feel inspired to share?
Your audience is going to feel that. And that's inevitably going to affect everything from your engagement, to your sales, to your sense of recognition...
You can follow all the trends in the world, but if you're not confidently communicating in a way that's aligned to you... you probably won't attract an audience or clients you truly vibe with.
When it comes to firing up fierce internet confidence... simply "raising your vibration" & trying to stay in the energy of abundance isn't always enough.
😱 As soon as those childhood worthiness wounds rear their ugly head...
🔪 Nobody likes that post you spent ages creating...
📉 You have a plateau or income dip...
🥵 Or... your nervous system goes into freeze...
Your confidence and motivation for your biz spirals down, you get a fat lump in your throat and it's like you're 8 years old again feeling like an idiot at school. 🥺
In fact - the more eyes on you and more clients you're working with... the more energy you have to HOLD. That's a lot for your inner child & requires more than simple mindset work or superficial strategies.
I used to think if I could just write the perfect content, get tons of engagement and get to 10k Insta followers... then I'd never have a self doubt wobble again.
Wrong!
Even as my success and audience was growing, I'd notice the old patterns of self censorship and imposter syndrome trying to get their hooks into me.
This is because healing our self expression is work we have to do consistently. It's not an overnight journey, like it's often sold as.
I think about it like shaving my legs. If I'm devoted to shaving all the time, my legs will stay smooth. If I'm not, things get spiky again.
That's why I created Burn The Rules - it's a deep, thorough library of trainings, practices and assignments you can apply to your business. and psyche again and again.
This course contains everything you need to tap into fierce, unapologetic + SECURE expression.
In fact - the more eyes on you and more clients you're working with... the more energy you have to HOLD. That's a lot for your inner child & requires more than simple mindset work or superficial strategies.
I used to think if I could just write the perfect content, get tons of engagement and get to 10k Insta followers... then I'd never have a self doubt wobble again.
Wrong!
Even as my success and audience was growing, I'd notice the old patterns of self censorship and imposter syndrome trying to get their hooks into me.
This is because healing our self expression is work we have to do consistently. It's not an overnight journey, like it's often sold as.
I think about it like shaving my legs. If I'm devoted to shaving all the time, my legs will stay smooth. If I'm not, things get spiky again.
That's why I created Burn The Rules - it's a deep, thorough library of trainings, practices and assignments you can apply to your business. and psyche again and again.
This course contains everything you need to tap into fierce, unapologetic + SECURE expression.
The last 2 years were a fucking rodeo LOL... especially in the coaching + spiritual entrepreneurship industry.
I really got to deep-throat my own medicine like the true 3/5 Projector I am.
I saw women *just like me* being cancelled & called out online like a modern day witch hunt. 🔥🔥🔥 I'm sure you saw it too.
That long-forgotten lump in my throat crept back in, thoughts like "will they come for me next?!" kicked me in the guts & the urge to hide was SO strong.
GNARLY TIMES. But really?
This was the next chapter in my big "how DARE she" story and the perfect opportunity to embody what I stand for.
For the last 2 years I LIVED, BREATHED & tested what would become the Burn The Rules curriculum. And I'm gonna lay out the entire roadmap for you too.
So many magical, creative entrepreneurs feel weighed down by this fear of what will happen for being themselves.
They perform confidently on the outside. But deep down?
They DO fear being too much or too polarising.
They DO worry they'll be rejected if they're too successful, rich, opinionated, hot or simply... too BIG in their expression as women.
And I really really get that.
I am a provocative Projector with BIG energy, who is very visible on the internet, but also SO sensitive.
I've had to dissolve my throat chakra wounds, beliefs around being "a bad person" & perfectionistic good girl tendencies... AGAIN & AGAIN throughout 8 years of online biz.
🔪 People projecting their unhealed trauma, jealousy + competitiveness onto you.
🥵 Wondering if you're too much or not "professional" / well spoken enough.
😱 Being put on a pedestal... then dragged off, sometimes publicly.
🤷♀️ Family, friends or people from your home town thinking you've lost the plot.
🤯 Perfectionism, procrastination & comparison... sometimes all at once.
😭 Being misunderstood, having your words twisted, or feeling frozen by the fear of "getting it wrong".
⛔️ Setting boundaries that anger others. Struggling to hold your boundaries because you don't want to seem like a heartless, selfish bitch.
🤬 Critical strangers on the internet.
🥺 Or an inner voice that questions if it's safe to be THAT VISIBLE, charge those prices or be that successful/hot/rich/unapologetic?
You're ready to get the fuck un-stuck. Your biz + creativity is feeling a bit *meh*. You've plateaued and if you're honest... you are holding your tongue on MANY topics you wanna speak to. The fear of not getting it "right" is keeping you caged (and your cash flow reflects it). You are ready to break out of this funk... like YESTERDAY.
You went from SO clear to destabilised by fear. You used to feel SO aligned & unstoppably "you" but THAT situation rocked your confidence like woahhh 😱😱😱 Their projections leaked into your thoughts like a bad smell... And as a result you started tip-toeing on eggshells, trying not to offend anyone + made choices that were not an 111% fuck yes.
The subtle fear of being cancelled, shamed or seen as "one of those coaches" is keeping you hostage. Not only do you not want people to talk shit about you/think you’re a bad person...you GENUINELY want to make people feel amazing & leave them better than you found them. But you also know you help NOBODY when you try to be relatable to everybody.
You thought you were the queen of boundaries + the baddest bitch on the block until... That. One. Freaking. Client. Who you COULDN’T win with... who brought up ALL your insecurities. You felt misunderstood, painted as the villain no matter what you did & the dynamic felt eerily similar to your childhood bully. You're ready for that situation to stop having any influence on how you show up.
You're DONE idling in self censorship. After some setbacks, you took some time to reflect, but you've lingered in the shadows for way too long & now? You know you're HIDING. The pity party doesn't match your outfit babe... it's time to put the pedal to the metal + emerge from the ashes brighter & louder than ever before.
You're obsessed with being so original *ahem* perfect, you get in your own way. Damn, it's edgy to admit but sometimes you cock-block your ideas or voice, fuss over the perfect words or simply don't let yourself follow your instincts because "sigh... everyone is already saying that."
You're sick to death of trying to "make sense". Cramming your creative multifaceted soul into one box... feels SO confining. You wonder... "which category am I meant to fit into?" because you're not like any other spiritual bitch in the industry. There's no one else to look up to because you're here to become your own muse & be your own niche.
You've been riding the external validation rollercoaster. Measuring your power based on financial milestones + other people's perceptions of you leaves you in a puddle of pressure, not-enoughness + overwhelming perfectionism.
You tell yourself... "If I could just buy that house, hit 100k months or be the best in my industry... ONLY then I'll feel like I've made it."
But it's never enough to satiate the void inside.
*ugly crying face enters the chat*.
Those *other* experiences left your heart bruised. 🥺🥺🥺
And it still stings.
Burn The Rules is a healing balm for your sensitive heart and ROCKET FUEL 🚀 for turning that pain into power.
Let's clean up the emotional aftermath so these wounds do NOT fester and...
This program will help you f*ck off the good girl antics + weight of other people's expectations...
So you can super-spray your magic 💦🪄 all over the internet, neutralise doubt & feel unshakeably GOOD in your brand.
You GET to be an unfiltered, widely beloved bad bitch who...
Regularly makes the internet go wild!
Doesn't give wounded people free mental real estate in her brain... or f*ck with her magic.
Attracts all the right people & repels all the WRONG ones.
Who loves the shit outta herself, her amazing life and everything she did to get there... WITHOUT apology.
You're a spiritual entrepreneur or creator ready to eradicate sneaky good girl patterns from how you use your voice online, create your offers, set boundaries and lead your business... so that your choices 111% reflect your values + standards.
You have a unique voice and you want to let it shine online, unapologetically! You're ready to say it how it is, be honest about what you stand for in your brand and dare to share what everyone is secretly thinking... And when people think you're too much? You want to be able to shake it off, completely unbothered.
You are DONE shrinking yourself to manage other women's reactions to your BIGNESS.
You want to feel calm, emotionally regulated & proud of who you are... even in the face of judgment, jealousy or conflict. And for your voice, messaging and business to remain solid through it all... you know you gotta STOP entertaining even the most subtle people pleasing energetics.
You know it's time to take your marketing SAUCE up a notch!!!
It's time to add some spice, flavour & big dick energy to your content + turn up the HEAT on the internet baby!
You're not a good girl... you're an artist! You're a visionary! You're a silly goose and a rich, hot witch!! You're a podcaster with a dirty mouth and a wise third eye!!!! You are ready to be seen... actually fuck that, you're ready to be famous!
You're done pretending you're basic... it's time to be ridiculous and tap into your most UNAPOLOGETIC creative flow.
You know you're here to do big things and be a trailblazer in your industry.
But sometimes you get in your head.. Procrastinate... Your mind tricks you into believing you're the ONLY one dealing with this challenge...
It's time to uncouple struggle from success and become your own biggest believer.
You want the tools to make this your reality and remind you to KEEP moving forward.
You're ready to throw away the rulebook, DISSOLVE all perfectionism, internalised doubt and let your throat chakra shamelessly POP! 🍾 🔮 ⚔️ 🧨 🔥 so that...
Everything you write, every offering you channel, every word you speak is infused with deep conviction, red-hot self trust and always without apology.
Second guessing your way of doing things? Not a thing, anymore.
Every challenge, initiation + shadow you face? Becomes EPIC inspiration for your content, art, medicine and wisdom.
And when they ask: "who does she think she is?!"
You answer: THAT GIRL.
Make sure you check out the full 4-phase curriculum outlined below this section for all the magic goodness inside...
"Truth or dare" homework: Fun assignments that shift the needle in your biz/marketing, activate your voice AND take action!
35 audio trainings, classes + practices: The Burn The Rules Library is filled with powerful resources designed to help you dissolve the deepest subconscious shit standing in the way of your self expression revolution. The methods and teachings shared will collapse the time it takes to release the most stubborn beliefs + patterns that hinder your power and progress.
Hot Girl Walking Tracks, Meditations, Visualisations: Subconscious rewiring tracks, fun meditations, EFT tapping + video pep talks for literally EVERYTHING YOU COULD THINK OF. Or werrrk the booty 🍑 and your power at the same time, with one of the hot girl walking classes. If the free wisdom I share on Instagram ignites you, just you wait... there's a solution for every single *ouch* moment you might face inside.
Nervous System Regulation Tools: Easy, short practices (5 minutes or less) to help you stay grounded, calm and connected to your body & intuition... no matter what.
Anddddd if that wasn't freaking awesome enough... You get SEVEN insanely good bonuses worth £1200! (listed below)
💋 Meet your inner good girl and understand how, when and WHY she shows up (and how to free yourself from her limitations)
💋 Kindness VS Niceness (and why niceness is cock-blocking your power)
💋 Moving from Imposter Syndrome to Mastery in your leadership
💋 Breaking free from rules, guilt and shame in your business
💋 Practice for moving beyond the pressure + confusion of what you "should do"
💋 Class + practice to help you stop procrastinating on important moves/choices
💋 How to stop overthinking your next moves, boundaries and expression so you can embody your unapologetic brand identity
💋 ESSENTIAL Nervous System Regulation tools for remaining empowered and clear-headed as a bold and visible leader.
Phase 1: Unlearn & Unshame
The Muse: Miley Cyrus
Phase 2: Good Girl to Bad Bitch
The Muse: Lana Del Rey
💋 My process for turning painful experiences into powerful, soul stirring content
💋 How to unapologetically embody your BIGNESS as an online brand and feminine leader (and heal the fear of being too much, too controversial or too vulnerable)
💋 Identify the "inner protectors" that cause confusion and insecurity and move beyond these limiting patterns in your BIG authenticity
💋 Move from confusion to CLEAR (I'll help you uncover the *actual* root of confusion and show you how to move beyond it)
💋 Support to un-filter yourself in your content, videos + coaching dynamics
💋 Spicy Insta Content Templates (To Powerfully Convey Your Genius)
💋 How to walk WITH judgment, instead of letting it steal your thunder!
💋 My process to get instantly UNSTUCK in your business
Phase 3: Let Them Be Wrong About You.
The Muse: Madonna
💋 Build the perserverance to dream bigger
💋 Create a sense of safety within and overcome the fear of getting famous for your work! Learn how to make big moves outside your "visibility comfort zone" using easy techniques and reframes.
💋 Owning YOUR way of creation, leadership and artistry without comparison- aka dare to be your own unique category of internet rockstar
💋 How to find your "leading edge" and "star power" as a public figure + stand out from the crowd/your industry
💋 The importance of playfulness if you want to be an empowered leader (and why it'll make you everyone's favourite bitch to follow on Instagram!)
Phase 4: Why be a lady, when you can be a legend?
The Muse: Stevie Nicks
💋 How to keep expanding and succeeding through challenging times in biz
💋 Meditation for letting go of fear and "proving energy"
💋 A visualisation practice that will help you stop sabotaging and manifest success FASTER (by showing your subconscious mind that your big dreams/next level of success are safe to have)
💋 Healing sisterhood wounds, so they don't f*ck with your confidence, slow down your biz growth or dilute your message. And also? So you feel comfortable having more eyes on you, including the inevitable critics.
💋 The 4 essential archetypes of powerful internet expression and marketing that makes your soulmate clients drool
💋 Sharing your art and daring to bloom, no matter what the critics say
💋 Fail-proof methods to move from sad girl energy to BIG DICK CONFIDENCE (including letting people be wrong about you or thinking you're cringe)
💋 Stand tall in your "controversial" opinions and move through your "...but, what ifs" like a boss.
Bonus 2
Bonus 3
Bonuses 4-6
Bonus 7
Bonus 1
Thankfully I learned that there’s a different, easier, self-HONOURING way.
I unhinged my worth from the good girl rules, learned how to embrace EVERY death & rebirth and have my own back, unconditionally.
And ironically, all the RIGHT people freakingggg loved it.
Over the last 10 years, I've discovered techniques, principles + healing tools that helped me eliminate the internal pressure I put on myself & the fear of what people thought or said about me.
This allowed me to continue showing up boldly + generously for my life's work. This kind of unshakeable power is an energetic instrument for creating the life you truly desire and a business you seriously enjoy.
The wildest truth? 😜
When you stop pressuring yourself to be perfect and needing everyone to like you, you can actually focus on what MATTERS.
Your dharma.
Your very important life's work.
The dream life you're building.
And the people that want your help.
You GET to create success, content & offerings that breathe life into people's hearts (and yours) instead of letting the haters suck your authenticity dry.
ONLY YOU can decide to:
The truth: You are a human being. To some level, you will care what people think.
Also the truth: You do NOT have to care what everybody thinks, always, all of the time.
Nor do you have to let it stop you from pursuing your goals or showing up.
I won't tell you to be fearless, rise above or only think positively.
(If that actually worked, we wouldn't be here talking).
But I WILL help you stop caring too much about other people's nonsense... so that you can care WAY MORE about your desires, dharma and the people you're here to help.
Guess what babe?
You do NOT have to be perfect, always say the right thing or be "relatable" to EVERY. SINGLE. HUMAN on the internet.
You don't have to explain yourself, your choices don't have to please everyone, nor is it your job to be liked by everybody.
Believe it or not, you're ALLOWED to make mistakes.
You are NOT the worst person in the world for f*cking up sometimes.
You're allowed to forgive yourself, move on with your head high & keep rising!
Your job is to be you and let the right people gravitate.
To UNTAME your tongue. 👅⚔️
To let yourself be SEEN.
To give the right f*cks, not the silly ones.
🔥 Burn BRIGHT & take action even when the Universe pulls the rug out from under you or cunty Susan shows up in your comment section.
🔥 Trust yourself, no matter what your Imposter Syndrome says! And that means taking responsibility for healing the voice inside that says "I'm a fraud" or "I've tricked people into thinking I'm good at what I do."
🔥 STOP doom scrolling hateful Instagram accounts + Reddit threads that negatively permeate your subconscious brain. You no longer participate in this nonsense, nor does it have ANY effect on how you share your work.
🔥 See EVERY experience in your biz as an opportunity to taste deeper flavours of your leadership, get even bolder + step into your power.
🔥 Radically shift your limiting beliefs around what is possible for someone like you and what you are capable of.
🔥 Supercharge your "I've got this" faith, turn your pain into medicine + believe in the inevitability of your success.
🔥 Quit hiding & procrastinating on what the Universe is ASKING you to do. You know the direction you're being called to. Your job is to dissolve the excuses, JUMP into the abyss and let your net appear!
🔥 Make all your choices and thus your future, a direct outcome of your desire, INSTEAD of fear. That includes setting some hella boundaries with THAT person - you already know exactly who I am talking about 😉
🔥 Heal the ugly roots of sister wounding that pierce your heart... so you can stop wondering if your clients & community will turn on you & start helping them transform their lives.
🔥 Murder your inner nice girl, so you can manifest the business, clientele, standards and dream life you f*cking deserve.
Underneath imposter syndrome, perfectionism, playing small + masking your expression is a deeper, more subtle layer...
...The inner good girl's deepest fear.
That she might in fact, be... *GASP* a BAD person!!!
Because naughty girls?
Are punished, sent to the naughty corner, shamed... and they don't belong.
Logically you know you're a good, kind person.
Yet... you're still subtly trying to prove to everyone..."Look!!! I'm not bad! I'm not one of those women!"
You DEEPLY crave to stand out...
...But your good girl feels SO MUCH SAFER in her people pleasing, letting things slide, comparison and watering down the spice so you don't offend anyone.
I'm going to help you REWIRE your thinking & the big fat limiting beliefs that keep you hiding (literally and energetically).
I'll help you dissolve the ineffective patterns your inner child leans on to protect you, which block your throat chakra, authentic voice AND the unapologetic life you want.
Let's light a fire under your peach to take action and get the momentum going... whilst regulating your nervous system along the way, so that the changes are sustainable.
Inevitable challenges, self-confidence "wobbles" or bad days in your business don't have to demolish your confidence, cramp your style or block your results.
You get to be the original, sexy, opinionated, wildly talented human with a voice that turns heads. 💣🌶💦🚀
And when you master owning that? Speaking up, sharing + creating your big dreams is a much more easeful, natural process that happens without force.
Ready to stop giving your precious energy to the critics, give your FULL f*cks to your soul work & manifest a life that feels deeply meaningful?
Is your soul screaming to break out of your self expression rut and make the internet go BANANAS for your offerings + content?
Does your brand or social media presence feel confining?
Like this tight box that makes you money and everyone knows you as THIS ONE WAY... but deep down your soul just wants to EXPRESS her full outrageous spectrum?!
To post something unplanned. Or unhinged... 🤠
To talk about a topic that has nothing to do with your niche.
To be the talk of the boring town you grew up in.
To make a funny silly reel if you’re always deep & serious OR reveal your vulnerability if you’re always “the expert”
Hell, maybe you just wanna twerk in your lingerie, talking about money without a single pang of shame?
Are you done with the weird, "off" power dynamics & hierarchy in the female business world? Is your soul craving a coaching space where her power and your power co-exist? Where unapologetic woman actually unite... instead of pretending to?
Real talk: your inner good girl has been running your Instagram account for months & you're sugarcoating the advice you give your clients.
You're not really saying it how it is.
You are second guessing the messages coming through your channel.
You think... maybe I'm not allowed to speak on this.
And sometimes... you worry the truth will sound... well, bitchy.
You've been scarred from people lashing out at you for being honest before...
So instead of pointing out their blind spots? You catch yourself toning down what you *actually* wanted to say... or holding your tongue.
You HATE admitting this but... your inner good girl has been measuring your power based on other people's opinions (projections) of you.
You subtly do things to fit in with the industry, think you need to sound more like that woman you admire or base your mood on how many likes your post got...
Or you downplay how GOOD your life actually is, so people don't think "who the fuck does she think she is!" (because bitches be jealous)
Maybe you're so obsessed with being original *cough* special, that you jump from idea to idea without full execution...
Convinced that "everybody is talking about this so I can't".
Your attention is out there instead of nurturing the ideas coming through your third eye. And you're ready to stop overthinking and BRING IT with your content + voice.
You were the golden child or black sheep growing up... now you unconsciously play that role in your business.
The golden child is loved & applauded for what they DO, not who they are.
So when you're achieving cool shit & showered in praise? You feel like the baddest bitch alive.
But when the launch flops, the client demands a refund or the cancel culture mob comes for your neck?!
Your sense of power gets rocked. Until the next dopamine rush...
If you're the black sheep, you've always felt different. You're here to be the chainbreaker in your lineage, but you struggle to figure out where you "fit" in your industry with ALL these unconventional ideas.
Need someone to make UNAPOLOGETIC, vulnerable expression feel superrrrr dreamy in your body...
Instead of like a sugar crash? To show you the way and prove that YES, it's possible for you?
Want to take your business, brand & social media messaging from soggy crumpet energy to...
"HOLY MOTHER OF PEARL, this woman is speaking to my SOUL!"
Ready to stop giving your precious energy to critics, give your FULL f*cks to helping your soul peeps & run your biz in deep alignment?
Is your soul screaming to break out of your self expression rut and make the internet go BANANAS for your offerings + content?
Are you done with the weird, "off" power dynamics & hierarchy in the feminine business world?
Is your soul craving a coaching space where her power and your power co-exist?
Where unapologetic woman actually unite... instead of pretending to?
I’m wildly delighted to share the program that I've been building for the last 2 years with you. I ADORE teaching women like you to f*ck off their their inner good girls, so they can live their lives + lead their businesses, unapologetically.
As a globally-recognised thought leader on empowerment, a 3/5 Mental Projector and a Leo (through and through!) it's my passion and life's mission to help women heal the fear and shame in the way of their most outrageously free expression.
3 hilarious mantras I live by:
I don't want to be a good girl, I want to be fucking ridiculous.
I don't want to be a good girl, I want to be the talk of the boring town I grew up in!!!
I don't want to be a good girl, I want to eat the patriarchy for breakfast.
If you couldn't already tell... I believe in a world where women un-shame themselves from taboo topics, boldly use their voices & defy social expectations. The topics that women are typically taught to shut up about (or be ashamed of) are the type of conversations I live for!
I created Burn The Rules to be SO much more than your average empowerment or self expression course. This experience will give rise to abundant transformation in how you use your voice, share your gifts, channel your creativity, serve the world... and give you bulletproof confidence in who you are.
I've made it my mission to show you what's possible when you heal your inner child & empower your voice. It's time to take bad bitch power from a concept...to way of life.
The tools, approaches + practices in this program are the EXACT things that have allowed me (and the women I mentor) to overcome the biggest challenges with our voices and manifest our biggest dreams, with unstoppable self belief.
If you desire to be dripping in creativity, call in your dream clients more easily, strengthen your marketing + sales power, scale your brand, start a famous podcast, have deeper relationships, inspire millions of people around the world, master thriving health or you simply want to live an authentic, unapologetic life... your voice & power are critical areas to work on.
As a highly trained Empowerment Mentor & Rebirthing Breathwork Healer who has mentored & taught more than 4,301 students around the world... I have faith that I can support you.
I embody everything I teach. As someone who healed from PTSD, reinvented her life and manifested the business of her dreams... I know a LOT about rising from the ashes. My 5 Line in Human Design has also taught me how to be OK with being a walking "projection field" - aka having others love or hate me.
Personal experience & acclaim aside... I've had the honour to train with some of the best teachers & certification programs in the world which gives me the expertise and skills to confidently teach & help my clients transform.
Certifications + Learning Lineage:
- Rebirthing Breath Therapy (Level 1)
- Transformational Coaching (Animas)
- Somatic Parts Work (Levels I, II & III)
- Integrative Health Coaching (IIN)
- Love, Sex + Intimacy Coaching (VITA™)
- Internal Family Systems w. Fran D. Booth
- Trauma Informed Space Holding w. Katie Kurtz
In the next year I will also be getting certified in Rapid Resolution Therapy & my Advanced Levels (up to Level III) in Rebirthing Breath Therapy. I share this to demonstrate my ongoing commitment to excellence & let you know what you can expect from future updates to this program! ;)
I invite you to join Burn The Rules if you feel drawn to me, the values I embody & the energy of this program. I am certain this will be an experience your future self will be thanking you for.
Which tells me you're feeling into joining us for Burn The Rules.
It's time to make a choice.
You might be asking yourself, do I really need this?
The short answer: you don't need this.
You have intuition.
You already have a voice.
However, if you want this I'm inviting you to go for it.
If you WANT to...
🔥 Fire up new, BALLSY inspiration levels + share your most unapologetic voice with your audience and clients
🔥 Remember you who the fuck you are.
🔥 Collapse the time bouncing back from doubt, criticism & haters.
🔥 Infuse new LIFE FORCE into your content, marketing and brand presence.
🔥 Unhook yourself from needing to be liked by everyone + open up the floodgates to your best creative work yet
🔥 Untether yourself from "woundmate" clients/followers, so you have space to work with clients who you'd actually want to go on holiday with IRL...
... And twerk daily to your own IG stories, because they're just SO damn good