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Learn to instantly spot manipulation, emotional unavailability and
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120 red flags.
Never get hurt again.

He seems amazing, but then he changes.

You're tired of wasting months questioning if you're the problem or if it's him.

You're tired of only catching the red flags in hindsight.

You're tired of thinking "he's different" only to end up single, jaded and learning the same lesson.

You're not stupid.
You just didn't have the Red Flag Handbook.

Every man who hurt you had warning signs.
You didn't clock them.

Until now.

🚩 You don't know why you keep ending up in unhealthy relationships despite years of inner work.

🚩Something is off, but you can't tell if it's your anxiety OR him being manipulative.

🚩 You believe you have high standards. But men keep disappointing you.

🚩 You've caught yourself making excuses for behaviour you'd never let a friend tolerate.

🚩 It was good at the start. Now it's full of arguments, distance, drama and no peace.

🚩 You've felt your gut screaming — and talked yourself out of it.

🚩 You're ashamed to tell your friends about things he's done, said or how he's treated you.

🚩 You've been in at least one situationship, watching months go by, hoping he will commit.

🚩 The intense highs and lows of your relationship give you constant anxiety and you've become a shell of yourself.

🚩 You've wondered if you're overreacting, too sensitive, or if you're the problem.

🚩 You keep thinking "he's different" only to learn yet another lesson.

Something feels wrong.
You can't figure it out.

You can't ignore it either.

**🚩 Stop attracting f*ckboys and time wasters

🚩 Know exactly what to watch for in the first 4 dates — before feelings cloud your judgment

🚩 Stop getting infatuated with the wrong men and avoid DECADES of future heartbreak

🚩 Know the difference between your intuition and your anxiety

🚩 Protect your energy, time, and emotional wellbeing from the very first date

🚩 Stop second-guessing whether you're "overreacting" and respond to situations confidently

🚩 Exit the wrong relationships faster, with less confusion, self-blame, and heartbreak**

🚩 Maintain impeccable standards and receive queen treatment

🚩 Become more secure and attract your dream relationship

🚩 Protect yourself (and future children) from abuse and mistreatment

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The Red Flag Handbook ensures you'll never pick the wrong man again.

This is the education you should have had before you started dating.

1

Love Bombing & Fast Intimacy

This chapter teaches you how to identify a love bomber before you're emotionally invested, trapped, or having his babies.

You learn the tricks men use to make you feel special, why moving fast is dangerous (not a compliment), and how to tell the difference between a genuine man pursuing you VS a monster plans to gradually ruin your life.

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Effort & Initiative

This chapter teaches you what it looks like when a secure man sees you as his dream girl VS when he sees you as "convenient" or a placeholder.

You learn what it means when he's vague with plans, his communication drops off or his effort drops off over time.

3

Inconsistency, Breadcrumbing & Situationships

If you've ever wondered why you feel unchosen, this chapter is for you.

Learn why certain relationships are full of intense highs and lows. The real reason he changed after you slept together. Why he's texting but never locking in plans. And figure out if your situationship sees a future with you.

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Boundaries, Respect & Emotional Safety

Chapter 4 also exposes why men who won't set boundaries with family, who treat your needs as drama or say you're “too sensitive” are dangerous.

We cover why he goes cold when you say no, weaponising your insecurities against you during arguments, sexual pressure, reckless driving and what it means when he makes "jokes" to humble you.

5

Manipulation, Psychological Games & Negging

This chapter teaches you to spot men who are dangerous.

Learn why "you're not like other women" is not a compliment. How negging and gaslighting work. Tricks he uses to escape accountability, DARVO and other mind games. And what it means if he flips every argument back on you.

6

Commitment, Future & Long-Term Clarity

Read this chapter if you want to figure out if he's a time waster.

Learn what it means when a man asks for "space" but still wants sex and support. The REAL reason he doesn't like labels. Why he talks about the future but hasn't introduced you to his family.

Plus, learn the key signs he's stringing you along and will never commit.

7

Trust, Character, Lying & Cheating

This chapter teaches you to spot a man who can't be trusted.

Learn what it means if he apologises but doesn't change. How to know if he will cheat on you. Why his stories keep changing. Why he gets defensive or tells small lies.

And what it really means if he says his ex was crazy.

8

Sex, Social Media & Third-Party Boundaries

This chapter covers everything from porn, to social media, to the female "best friend."

Learn why Snapchat and disappearing messages are a dealbreaker. Appropriate VS inappropriate contact with exes. What to do if you find an active dating profile or catch him talking to other women.

9

Communication, Conflict & Repair

This chapter is for the woman who feels she is walking on eggshells.

You learn why silent treatment is abusive. Why 'here we go again' when you calmly raise a concern is contempt. Why some men argue to WIN instead of to understand. And why a man who never apologises is a dangerous man to marry.

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Emotional Availability & Intimacy

Chapter 10 teaches you why feeling lonely inside a relationship is a warning sign you should never ignore.

Learn what it means when conversations never go deep. Why he never compliments you or makes you feel adored. Why it feels like you're his mother, not his queen.

11

Control, Jealousy & Isolation Tactics

This chapter teaches you what to do if he judges what you wear, causes drama with your loved ones or breaks up with you during arguments.

Learn how jealousy gets disguised. What it means if he flips every issue back on you. Sneaky signs he is jealous of you or trying to isolate you. And how to spot subtle controlling behaviours... before it's too late.

12

Substance Use, Addiction & Financial Instability

This chapter is for the woman who worries if he'll ever get his shit together.

You learn why substance abuse issues, gambling, video games and financial instability reveal much deeper problems. The truth about men who regularly drink and take drugs, lack ambition, bring their laundry home to mum and aren't financially stable.

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The Secure Woman Filter

Four questions to apply in any situation, in real time, to assess what you're experiencing and how to respond. This framework paired with the Red Flag Handbook will change how you navigate every relationship going forward.

It’s not you.
It’s the red flags you didn't clock.

What it looks like

Real life examples and different scenarios of how this red flag shows up

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Why it's a red flag

Thorough, nuanced explanations of why it's a red flag and whether it's a "caution" or a dealbreaker

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What to do next

The exact next steps depending on the circumstance, including scripts on what to say

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I'm

Amy

I'm a dating and relationship coach, and I've spent years studying why smart, self-aware women keep ending up in the same painful patterns — and what finally breaks them.

The answer is almost always the same: they weren't given the education. The real, honest, unflinching education about what manipulative, emotionally unavailable, or damaging behaviour actually looks like in the early stages of dating. And how to raise their standards and build amazing relationships.

Every Monday, I run Red Flag University on my Instagram Stories — a live Q&A where I help women identify what's really going on in their situationships, relationships, and early dating experiences in real time.

What I see, week after week, is the same thing: women with high intelligence and big hearts, feeling anxious, disappointed and confused about their love lives.

The Red Flag Handbook is the education I wish every woman had before she started dating or got into a relationship.

You might be reading this and thinking...

Not all of the men in this handbook are bad guys. They're emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, avoidant, or operating from their own wounds. That doesn't make what they do okay — and it doesn't mean you should stay in it.

Most women do — in theory. The problem isn't knowledge. It's that when you're emotionally involved, chemistry is loud and red flags go quiet.

This handbook trains you to see them before feelings cloud your view, but also explains exactly what to DO in different situations.

"He's not a bad guy though."

"He doesn't have bad intentions."

"Maybe I'm the problem."

"I don't want to be judgmental."

"I already know what red flags are."

"What if I never find anyone better?"

"What if he's my soulmate and I let him go?"

"He must love me because he _____."

Good intentions won't give you back the years you spend waiting for him to choose you, or undo the damage of disrespect, inconsistency or the arguments that never got repaired.

He can be a good person and still be the wrong partner for you. The Red Flag Handbook helps you figure this out.

Maybe you have patterns to look at too. You may even see your own behaviour mentioned in this handbook.

But understanding your patterns starts with being able to see his clearly. You can't work on yourself in a vacuum.

Attracting a healthy relationship requires good judgment, NOT no judgment at all.

There's a difference between judging someone's character and assessing whether their behaviour is good for you. This handbook teaches you that distinction.

That fear is exactly what keeps women in the wrong relationships for years. The handbook addresses the scarcity mindset that makes you hold onto men who aren't right for you.

The handbook will help you know the difference between a relationship challenge VS a toxic relationship. If you want to answer this question with certainty, you need this.

Love is consistent behaviour over time. Not grand gestures after bad behaviour. Not apologies without change. Not intensity at the start followed by distance. The handbook will open your eyes to whether he actually loves you, or whether you're trauma bonded.

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You can keep catching the red flags six months too late — once you're already emotionally invested and down bad for him.

You can keep giving out third chances and believing apologies.

You can keep blaming men. Or yourself.
You can lose another year to heartbreak and confusion.
And watch your confidence dissolve.

You can keep learning the same lessons for the rest of your life if you want to.

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✓ Ebook with 120 Red Flags and detailed explanations

✓ 12 In-Depth Chapters covering love bombing, manipulation, emotional unavailability, sex, boundaries, commitment avoidance, control tactics, and more

✓ What to Do Scripts — Word-for-word phrases and actions for different scenarios, so you know exactly what to do in the moment

✓ The Secure Woman Filter — Four questions to apply in any real-time situation to assess what you're dealing with and how to respond

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Got questions?

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Here are the answers.

Is this right for me if I'm not currently dating?

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Absolutely. Reading this before you start dating again is actually ideal — so you enter your next experience with clear eyes and solid standards. Many women also find it deeply validating for processing past relationships and understanding what happened.

Is this right for me if I'm not currently dating?

Will this help me with a specific situation?

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The handbook covers 120 red flags across 12 categories with real, detailed examples and clear explanations.

You will very likely recognise your own experiences throughout — and gain clarity on what they mean. For personalised support, I also offer private coaching by application.

Will this help me with a specific situation?

I'm already in a relationship. Is this still for me?

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Yes — and often this is exactly where the handbook hits hardest. If something feels off but you can't figure out what, or you're wondering whether to stay or leave...

Reading this will give you language for what you've been experiencing. I suggest reading Chapters 4 (Boundaries), 5 (Manipulation), 9 (Communication & Conflict), 10 (Emotional Availability), and 11 (Control & Jealousy) specifically. But the whole guide will be eye opening.

I'm already in a relationship. Is this still for me?

What if I buy it and it's not right for me?

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The Red Flag Handbook is a digital product and is non-refundable once you check out. Please read the full description carefully and reach out to amy@amyrushworth.com with any questions before purchasing.

What if I buy it and it's not right for me?

What format does it come in and how do I access it?

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The Red Flag Handbook is delivered as a digital PDF set up in Google Docs. It is readable and downloadable on any device: your phone, tablet, laptop, or desktop. No app required.

The reason I use Google Docs is 1) It allows me to make updates and improvements to the original document in the future, which you'll receive for free. And 2) You can copy the document template and make your own notes.

You have access immediately after purchase. You'll receive a download link in your email (the one you used at checkout) straight away. If you do not receive this, please check your junk, email amy@amyrushworth.com or reach out on Instagram.

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